how to get a right partner?

Category: Singles Spit Swap

Post 1 by season (the invisible soul) on Sunday, 19-Sep-2004 6:11:10

hi all. hi all, some times i'm wondering that how to find a wright partner for our life? & how do we know that he or she is our wright partner?

Post 2 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Sunday, 19-Sep-2004 7:18:06

Ist.
of all DONT make it too obvious your looking for life time commitment
2nd.
get to know yourself 1st and ensure that your ready for this

3rd
be prepared for a long long frustrating search as the opposite sex will invariably be scared away by any thoughts of a long term relationship
but at least you'll find the rotters early on.

Post 3 by blink183 (I can't call it a day til I enter the zone BBS) on Sunday, 19-Sep-2004 16:12:32

First of all, I'd recommend that you take the time you learn how ATTRACTION works, so that when the right person DOES come into your life, you'll be able to ATTRACT and KEEP her. If you're a guy, I strongly recommend that you check out www.doubleyourdating.com. Secondly, you need to get out there and MEET and DATE lots of different people. You're not going to find the right person by choosing from a small pool of candidates, and you're not going to know how to ATTRACT and BEHAVE around the right person in order to maintain that attraction. There are certain behaviors that TRIGGER attraction inside a woman, and you need to learn what they are. Like anything else in life, ATTRACTION is a skill that you weren't born knowing, but that you can learn to cultivate in your life.

Post 4 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Sunday, 19-Sep-2004 20:46:05

um .. you can't learn to make a woman like you. Each woman is different and unique and each true-to-herself woman will have their own sets of standards, subconscious ones most of the time. .. but more so, women are more likely to just fall for a guy in natural circumstances. It is not about learning the skill and what makes women attracted to you. Lol! that's just a megga crazy theory if i've ever heard one!
But on the other hand, if you are a guy, .. um .. sorry, but there is not much advice I can offer as I don't know how they work myself! My general theory is that most of them are utter creeps who think on one track only - especially around women. But there are some decent, jenuine guys out there, but I don't think you can ask anyone how to find the right partner. you will know yourself how to do so according to your standards at the right time.
Good luck! :)

Post 5 by charisma (Here today, gone tomorrow.) on Monday, 20-Sep-2004 0:07:45

K, Season? i am here to save the day. I know you! You seem like a sweet girl! So let me offer you some advice.
In order to atract or find and meet the right guy, you need to be yourself. Be honest, sincere, and be true to yourself. Don't be someone you're not. You want the guy your with to like Season, not some made up girl pretending to be someone else. If you want a long term relationship, don't be afraid to look for it. If the guy can't or won't accept you for who you are, or what you have to offer him, he ain't worth your time, sweety.
It all depends on whether or not your looking for true love, or just someone to be there with you, but if it's true love you want, go for it! I wish you all the best of luck in finding it!
Charis

Post 6 by melodica (Account disabled) on Monday, 20-Sep-2004 22:09:51

My advice is to not even give clues to anyone you're single or looking for romance. Make lots of good friends. Sooner or later you'll find one that clicks with your personality and makes you feel happy and if they're worth enough and the feeling is mutual, you two can test what it's like to be in a relationship. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

Post 7 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 02-May-2005 17:43:39

if you meet someone that you develop strong connection with good chemistry and an added electricl feeling. someone you learn to trust. someone that makes you feel like you can see your self ten or twenty years with that person.

Post 8 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Saturday, 07-May-2005 13:48:19

When the girl takes it in the ass she's the right one.

Post 9 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Sunday, 08-May-2005 1:12:17

ah BG is here again gang! Lol Lol freakiness :)